Happy End of Summer! More or less!
Not seen any blogs recently? Yeah, I have no idea what happened to me. I can only assume I was kidnapped by aliens and placed in some kind of pod where my vital fluids were used as a crude battery to operate their kid's ant farm or something (this is a very fancy ant farm)
No no, there were some medical funs, which mostly whittles down to: hey, I'm not dead yet! And I'm mostly intact! Allan was off school,which seems to take up more and more attention than ever each subsequent year. It's been nice. I really love hanging with my SUPA AWESOME daughter.
Also, dang I have had very few moments to breathe. I even went on leave from work, because I just can't be available the way an actual job needs somebody to be with the gremlin on tap.
But still cool.
Allan has figured out that her allowance (6,000 "Points" which equals out to $6) is useful for purchasing things she wants. She has also rightfully figured out that she can earn additional points in various ways that we've since negotiated. Her suggestions involved "spraying things, washing stuff, and being nice to mommy." (being nice to mommy apparently involves not yelling at her or hitting her, which I kind of think is more like basic human respect, but well... creative suggestion anyways) We created a decent list of additional ways she could "help" out around the house. And while I'll own that typically her help has been a little bit more work than jsut doing the chores myself, it's been really cool to see her involved. And learning what chores she's down with
This is how she wanted to make her bed and this then is how her bed shall be made |
So far
* cleaning the counters and tables is awesome and she'll find creative ways to involve her stuffies and whatnot, while still actually being productive. She likes being "sponge girl" and "towel girl"
* Mopping is a disaster and drying the floor afterwards apparently is torture
* If I hold up each book (or other object) she owns and asks if she wants to keep it, she'll actually be pretty reflective and we've cleared a lot of space on the mantle and her bookshelves this way.
* Making beds usually involves an elaborate somewhat time consuming ritual of wanting ot first un-make the beds, disembowel the bedding and spend several hours playing catch-the-child-with-the-blanket, then possibly turning our pillows into rocks or mountains or ice bergs to climb on and then needing to video tape all this and then edit the video, but she will eventually make beds.
*Laundry involves demanding that she be buried under a pile of her own clothing before anything else can happen.
The reason she has been wanting to up her allowance is something that has taken up a fair bit of the rest of her time: Allan recently discovered Dogman. It's a series of graphic novels by Dav Pikley about a cop who has a dog head and human body, but it's so much more than that. It's sweet. It's funny. It's full of really dumb potty humor mixed in with some incredibly clever humor. Overall, silly stories with a very kind heart and the books tend to end in surprisingly poignant ways.
Allan finished buying up that series, and then moved on to the Cat Kid Comic Club, which is a spin off in which Lil Petey (a protagonist in the Dogman series) and his telekinetic tadpole friend teach a bunch of talking frog babies to make comics. It's pretty dumb and pretty brilliant and very creative. So Allan bought the rest of that series too.
Then Allan got the entire Captain Underpants (also by Dav Pilkey) book series for her birthday. So she's pretty over doing chores as much at the moment, for some reason. But we are reading a lot!
It's not all books for Miss Thing though. She did also use her earnings to buy herself a very fancy schmancy vanilla ice cream cone at Full Tilt
So PHEW, it's been a summer!
But that's just the begining...
Besides that, we had a visitor during a decent chunk of July! Fidel!!! Yay!!! It was nice. Really nice. He's a good guest. And we are, of course, amazing hosts!
Allan has known Fidel since she was two, mostly via video call, but in person as well, so needless to say she was about the opposite of SHY when it came to quickly identifying him as "adult whom I can order around who is stronger and WAY more fun than mommy..."
He was amply game, because Allan is just not one of those adorable little unicorn fairy cat children one says things like "no" to (at least if one wants to keep their ear drums intact)! She liked him SO much that by the end of the visit she was calling him the Worst Person Ever! Which has always been a crown held by Daddy. And she briefly even said she hated him. Which she almost always saves for me and Andrew, but definitely not Pam who is the only person whom she loves whom she does not also hate (it's complex, she's seven, we roll)
She had her A-Game hostessing on obviously.
For our part, Andrew and I executed our superlative hosting duties by taking him on as many Pokemon Go themed walks as possible (three people can do a lot more damage at a raid than two!! This was a huge opportunity here) and introducing him to our increasingly textured Nintendo Switch collection. It was good times.
Andrew also took him to a tall mountain to climb up the side of it. Nobody died! So that's a big win!
Just to up the hosting ante, we had more visitors!!
My sister and her family were out going up to my dad's island house but they stopped by on the way. I seem to have taken zero photos of them, but the boys are all HUGE and the adults look about the same, which is to say, lovely. And Allan got some sweet new clothes!
Around the same time, Allan conquered CAMP. Or mostly did. There were some tense moments in which we weren't sure that Miss Thing would be allowed back to the remaining weeks. And we had some very creative brainstorming sessions to figure out ways to self-regulate in a new environment with new frustrations and new teachers without all the accomodations and support that her amazing elementary school offers. In the end we came up with a backpackfull of books and a sketch journal, and that seemed to do the trick! We also practiced a variety of kitty breaths and noises that maybe would help. I suggested purring when she felt overwhelmed, which she did not care for, but I tried it later and danged if it doesn't kinda work! She did like "hissing" though, so I'm not sure how many teachers were freaked out by that...
In all, she had five weeks of camp. The first four were back to back and might have worn her down a bit. The very first camp was "Art and Mindfulness" which seemed somewhat perfectly geared towards a sweet little artist with a short fuse. She had a few difficult moments in that camp but absolutely adored it nonetheless.
The most successful camp from our point of view was Little Coders. She made a friend during the class. She learned a lot. There was not a single disciplinary infraction. And she was the only kid who wanted to show off her project to the entire class and their families during the end of week showcase. Which was cute.
And it did. She finished off the week on a high note, claiming it to be the best camp ever. Score! So glad we'd missed the refund window.
The birthday excitement wasn't limited to two days (her celebration and her actual birthday, both of which were observed with cupcakes and other treats of course). Because Mommy got older too!
And the candles were fun!
Despite having woken up with no idea that it was in fact my birthday, Allan made up for it fast by making me not one, not two, but THREE surprise birthday cards and then hiding them around the house for me to search for.
(Pam helped. Pam was rewarded with a lot of screaming for her assistance)
She also did not sleep that night and summoned me with lots of yelling after bedtime because she needed to "shower [me] with love]".
Not to be sated with such shenanigans, we rounded off that week with ...
.. Another birthday party!!!
This time for some lil friends of Allans, but she pretty much took it as another party for herself, coming in screaming for cupcakes (they only had cake, but somehow she forgave them after a little protest) and toting her pokemon stickers, unikitty and tiara in stead.
And perhaps this little blog will be filled with more frequent pictures and musings more often... maybe!
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